These days importance of horoscope matchmaking through astrology has been increased a lot, and before marriage people doing horoscope match making later their family deciding that whether this is a possible match or not…Few taking a direct risk as they don’t believe in such things or even in case of love marriage they don’t think much and making marriage.
Here I am going to describe the importance of matchmaking, because since few days I have seen many cases those results were good while matchmaking but after marriage, they are crying, and trust me when I own did few kinds of research to find the reason, I was totally shocked.
Introduction :
Horoscope match-making is a precaution tool, and through it, we see the future living compatibility of a couple because it’s a question of two life as nobody wants to take risks because you can do nothing apart from divorce once a marriage is been done, Any right or wrong selection can either create good luck or lead to a stroke of bad luck. So, the main purpose of horoscope matchmaking is, to check chemistry between a couple, physical balance, and even financial security to ensure the ‘happy ever after’ married life of a couple. That’s the main reason “horoscope matching plays a vital role in such an important life decision as marriage in India and now in abroad too”.
And these days it’s a basic fact if the horoscopes are not matching then parents are not allowing to move ahead for marriage (Especially girls side family), but if the horoscope is telling good future of both, parents are happily allowing to go for the marriage.
But main question is, what about such couples those Horoscope didn’t match?
Usually, such couples are advised not to get married, even if love or physical attraction between girl and boy existed. I saw many heartbroken couples on numerous astrological sites crying over their matched astrology reports.
That’s not only the case because I have seen many people whose charts were good during horoscope matchmaking but their life has become hell after marriage and all the time they are thinking of divorce.
So the answer is very simple – first of all entire dependency on matchmaking is not a good thing and the second reason is, there might be some mistake during the analysis of the horoscopes because “Astrology is never wrong however an astrologer could be” and these days people use software’s to do horoscope matchmaking so chances are very higher to get the incorrect results.
Importance Of Matchmaking :
Horoscope matchmaking is a procedure that suggests that whether a couple is made for each other or not because your life partner has been destined, matchmaking just tells yes this is the one who is made for you Because marriage is just not merging two-family, its merging two souls, two hearts, two minds, or you can say two life entirely.
Do you know why the first night of marriage is very IMP for both the married one???
Yes, its the first sexual night between the couple, and this night is very imp because it is merging two souls and making them one, Husband and wife nothing but the two aspects of the same coin, and after the first sexual night they become a complete coin, if one aspect is not good than another aspect will recover that gap, or you can say husband and wife are two Tire of one bike, and everybody knows bike can’t run without both the Tires.
Basically legal marriage merely a stamp that gives proof that these two people are legally husband and wife, but what if happiness is missing in the marital life of a couple???
Because however husband and wife are two Tire of the same bike, but what if one Tyre gets puncture after marriage because even divorce cant give you a solution and life becomes a curse if life is leading towards divorce after marriage (especially for females).
So all using matchmaking tools before marriage to avoid such future confusion only.
The game is not over here, That’s why I am writing this article and want to show you some shocking fact about horoscope matchmaking, As I have seen few cases where before marriage they have performed horoscope matchmaking and matchmaking result were good but after marriage couple is missing marital happiness in life, and the only reason is, Everyone is just punching the birth details in the software and if all the required parameters are matching, they finalizing marriage blindly.
However, they have no proof whether they are punching the correct birth details, or they are punching the birth details which they have received verbally for their child.
Even a little mistake in your birth details is going to generate the wrong match-making results, and when marriage happens people blame astrology…Which is totally incorrect.
Doing match-making before marriage is like taking a precaution because if there is anything wrong in match-making results so through some possible remedies you can correct that upcoming future problem to a certain level.
Failure Reason in MatchMaking :
I have received many complaints from my readers and as per them their parents has performed matchmaking before their marriage but still, they are not happy with their spouse???
However matchmaking alone is not a reason for that failure, but here we will discuss possible reason through matchmaking, so when I manually saw the horoscopes of a couple where I don’t find compatibility between both the horoscopes, But when I tried through software trust me I was shocked, Horoscope was matching and allowing and predicting successful married life.
All the astrologers and peoples are generating matchmaking results through any online website, mobile app, or software, and blindly trusting that result (mobile is a game-changer in such matchmaking as you can do just in minutes).
So mainly above two points are responsible for flop marriage even after taking matchmaking precautions before marriage.
Remember astrology is never wrong because if we turn the pages of history, so we can see that even kings were performing horoscope matchmaking through their priests in ancient times, and all marriages were successful and you cant find even a single divorce case from ancient time.
Hence focus on two points, which are incorrect birth details and using software for matchmaking are responsible for making incorrect or incompatible matches.
MatchMaking Examples :
I did research on few married couples and got the shocking fact which is, Anyone who got a score lower than 18 points is living normal and happy life however any couple who got 20 or plus points is not happy with their marriage.
Lets understand the same with few Samples :
Amitabh Bachchan & Jaya Bachchan
The above charts belong to Indian film superstar Mr. Amitabh Bachchan and his Wife Mrs. Jaya Bachchan, who is living a happy life and together since marriage. Now see their matchmaking result generated through a software –
As per the match matching they have got 12 points and marriage is not considered good, However if we ignore little ups and downs in their life then they are happy since starting and dedicated to each other till now, refer next example –
Dharmendra & Hema Malini
Above both charts belong to Film star Dharmendra and his wife Hema Malini, and as far as I know, it was a love marriage and they have not done any horoscope matching before marriage, but living successful marriage life and still together. Now see the matchmaking report for them –
As per match-making card which I have generated through software is telling that this marriage is not Good, as we getting only 15.5 points, However, the result is totally different from report card and both are happy with their marriage, So again software making mistakes here. Refer to another example –
Brad Pitt & Angelina Jolie
Well, Everyone knows who’s above celebs are, They both are world hot celebs and superstar personality of Hollywood film industry, They are living together since a long time and very happy in their life, But again software is telling that both horoscopes is not compatible for each other, See below –
So for a good matchmaking 18 points are the minimum we required at least, here above we got 17 only, which means they are not compatible as per computerized calculation, however, the reality is far away, now take one example from middle-class life so that you could understand how big mistakes we are making through software these days –
Case Study of a Couple :
I don’t want to disclose their name, however, both have done love marriage, Just before a few years back they have married but they have lost interest in each other, especially Male is changed totally, this story is about to end now…however as per software both the horoscopes are good and promising successful marriage life. refer below –
As per software calculation, this marriage is very good, however, in real life result is just the opposite. please don’t trust the software’s, All the software’s are generating the wrong match-making result.
Ashtakoot Matchmaking System :
Let’s learn about all eight points which are the base of the horoscope matchmaking report as there are a total of 36 guna’s are in matchmaking, which comes under eight points –
1+2+3+4+5+6+7+8 = 36 Total
One by one lets discuss all eight points :
- Varna – Varna means Caste, Like Brahmin, Shudra, Vaishya, and Kshatriya and our astrological Zodiac Signs are also based on the same Verna theory like – Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces signifying Brahmin Varna, Aries, Leo, Sagittarius signifying Kshatriya Varna, Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn signifying Vaishya Varna, and Gemini, Aquarius, Libra belongs to Shudra Varna, Varna matching of both the persons indicates ego measurement between two souls, however, we use this point to calculate mutual understanding between two souls, which is very imp because how husband and wife are treating each other post marriage will depend on it. Whether they can understand each other feelings or not, Their ego comes between them, which can create hurdles and fighting situations, a total of one point has been assigned for that If boy and girl both are getting one point here means it’s good enough.
- Vashya – Vashya means control system – it has four qualities like Quadrupeds (Four legs animals), Manav (Human), Jalchar (Living in water), Vanchar (Living in the forest), Keet (living under the earth), our twelfth Zodiac signs have also been divided into these four categories like Aries, Sagittarius, and Taurus signifies Quadrupeds, & Gemini, Virgo, Libra, Aquarius Signifying Human category, Cancer, Capricorn, Pisces signifying Jalchar category, & Leo is a Vanchar, and Scorpio is Keet, Vashya indicates the harmony between two couples, also indicates the intensity of mutual attention and affection between two couple, how much they like each other, it’s a very important and primary factor, It also signifies the control on each other, or you can it’s like dominant factor, Total two-point has been assigned for Vashya.
- Tara – It’s an indicator for fortune because it’s a result of Nakshatra matching from both couples horoscope, and three-point has been assigned for that if all three are matching so its overall good in a matter of fortune, few astrologers also check the health of the couple from this point. The total score will decide the correct and true picture for Tara matching.
- Yoni – Yoni is a parameter to check attraction between two souls, I mean between bride and groom because it indicates biological compatibility and satisfaction, yoni is also an important factor because attraction is key which produces love between two people, total four points have been assigned for yoni, But the total point which you are getting through matchmaking will decide attraction level.
- Graha Maitri – Grah Maitri is a parameter to check the planetary friendship of girl and boy, If planets of boy horoscope have friendship with girl horoscope planets, it is said that mutual cooperation between girl and boy would be quite good, which also indicate, intellectual level and spiritual level between both. total five-point has been assigned for this matchmaking as five points in the compatibility chart of the boy and the girl indicate excellent compatibility between both.
- Gana – Gana Parameter depends on three qualities which are, Rajo Gun (Human), Tamo Gun (Demon), And Satva Gun (God), And the basic relationship of two-person is always depending on these three qualities, Gana making also indicates the temperamental characteristics, Total six-point has been assigned for Gana Match Making, An overall score will decide true cooperation.
- Bhakoot – Bhakoot is really one of the most imp points, total happiness of the married life will depend on this score, If the overall point is not up to the mark then it is considered as Bhakoot Dosh which is not considered for martial happiness, Bhakoot also indicates the growth of the family, total seven points has been assigned for Bhakoot hence seven points in the compatibility chart of a boy and a girl produces excellent results.
- Nadi – Nadi signifies stability and life of marriage life, Nadi means pulses and there are three kinds of pulses that have been narrated in an ancient text which are, Adi, Madhya, and Antya, If all above seven points are matching in the horoscope but Nadi score is low or not up the mark, Marriage should not be advised, hence Nadi score should not be zero, Even eight out of eight is doesn’t consider auspicious, Because 8 point out of 8 affect longevity and health of the children’s.
So these eight parameters (also known as Ashkoot Guna matching) we apply between two horoscopes, However, I will always suggest you get in touch with an expert astrologer and ask for manual calculation, Because software has no guarantee, remember matchmaking is always based on few parameters, and never wrong, however, if you are using an online tool or any match making software or app than you would be responsible for post married life.
A Manual Method of Judgment :
If you are not aware of the above 8 points or not happy with your horoscope matchmaking results or you still want to know whether your marriage and marital life would be happy or not then the below parameters can help you a lot.
There are various other methods for matchmaking but here I am just giving few basic calculations for manual matchmaking like check Lagna, Lagna Lord, Moon, Nakshatra, Karaka Venus (For Male), Karaka Jupiter and Mars (For Female), Navamsha chart, and seventh house and its lord in D-1 and D-9 chart, and Seventh Navmasha Lord and its position in D-1 (Do this for both the horoscopes of boy and girl).
If the above planets are friendly with each other on both horoscopes, Then yes you can go ahead with the marriage. However, you are still confused then I will suggest you please take expert advice before getting married.
Below answering few very commonly asked questions which are related to this article and very helpful for judgment, So click on the question to get the answer :
Frequently Asked Questions :
Conclusion :
There is another important part which I want to discuss is “Prarabdha” (Fate), remember, Matching horoscopes are just a precaution, but such things cant overlap fate, which means if a horoscope itself worse in terms of marriage then matchmaking cant convert it into a good one, Lord ram and Maata Sita matched 36 out of 36 through matchmaking but fate was something else (Forest life), So hope you can understand what I am trying to say here, Fate comes first, and they are part of fixed destiny (Not changeable), So refer the fate first then follow matchmaking.
No one can write A model superstar into your destiny you will get only whoever is made for you, only karma is in your hand (matchmaking is just a part of it), families using a matchmaking system to satisfy their minds so that they can be assured for future.
Whenever getting a horoscope for matchmaking, please request a source like a birth certificate, etc but please guys (Especially females) don’t hesitate to ask birth certificate of your proposed spouse because it’s a question of your life and never trust the verbally given birth details If you really want to be happy after your marriage.
Astrology is never wrong, but the person who is matching your horoscope could be wrong, hence get in touch with an astrologer who is an expert in the matchmaking field, And be away from all the astrologers using software to calculate the horoscope matchmaking.
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